Mexican passion lokuqala-umntu: friendship, uthando kwaye umtshato

Kukho azanelanga wawuphungula, amaxesha amaninzi kwi-Us

Enikwe dramatic loluntu neeyantlukwano phakathi ahlukeneyo eenkqubo le bonke beli lizwe, ndizakuyenza zama hayi generalize, kwaye umxelele kuphela malunga yintoni faced ngokwayoNgoko ke, yintoni friendship, kwaye uthando emtshatweni kunye abantu beli lizwe.

Jikelele consensus: ukwenza abahlobo kunye Mexicans kulula kune kunye Europeans.

Abaninzi bahlobo bam abahlala e-Europe, wathelekisa friendship kukho siege lomthetho i-fortress. Ixesha kuya kuthabatha kakhulu: ngabantu distrustful kwaye reluctant ukuba vumelani kwi-bam personal ubomi kunye bolunye uhlanga. Kanjalo silindele a inani iinkonzo, njengoko ngomhla Royal inkundla. Nokuza: bahlangana abazali, compulsory dinners kunye nosapho lwakhe, usapho utyelelo. Yonke into iza kuba mnandi kwaye relaxed, ngenxa akuvumelekanga ukuba yamkelwe. Kodwa uza bazive e wawuphungula, ukukhetha i-hlula ukuba intlanzi phakathi countless izixhobo. Ngoku, Emexico, kukho zombini: kuqukunjelwe inkonzo leyo iyodwa kwaye wawuphungula ka-unxibelelwano, eziya wafundisa lokuqala izifundo, uza kuba ukuthi rhoqo kwaye ukuba umyalelo. Impendulo ngu inye kuphela. Nkqu ukuba izinto yiya kakubi, kufuneka ulinde kude umntu ucela eliqhelekileyo umbuzo bonke aba bantu ukuba hug nabo kwaye asazanga, kuphela ngoko uyakwazi ngokwenene bathethe malunga ezibuhlungu. Omnye imvelaphi inkcubeko shock kissing kwintlanganiso. Molweni apha kufuneka kuphela asazanga kwi cheek. Nabo bonke kubo. Kuquka boss, umsebenzi nabo kwaye lecturers e Ngezifundo.

Ukuba kufuneka zingeniswe amabini abantu ngexesha lunch nge Mexican usapho, uqwalaselo.

Hayi, musa ukukhonza njengoko i-kwesizathu. Eyona nto ukumbule ezi iinkonzo, oko kuthi akusebenzi ze urhuqe naliphi na intsingiselo, kuba wonke Mexican kakhulu ebalulekileyo. Kwaye ukuba phakathi Dating ngaba kuthetha umntu uza xana, uya kukhumbula. Kwaye kuxelela abanye -kwaye abantu.

Usapho kwi-Mexico kakhulu vala.

Xa ushiya, kufuneka ndithi goodbye nkqu nabo esabelana awukhange exchanged ilizwi zonke ngokuhlwa.

Musa xana ukuba hug nabo kwaye kuthi.

Ukuba ufuna bavumelana zihlangana ethile umhla nelixa, oko kuthetha ukuba akukho nto.

Akunjalo yokuba intlanganiso iza kwenzeka.

Famous Latin i-american maniac transferred kuxhomekeke iimeko ezifana namhlanje, iveki elandelayo, mhlawumbi, okanye zange, ngokugqibeleleyo characterizes Mexican society.

Ngoko ke, le mini phambi scheduled intlanganiso kufuneka ucele, ndiya get ukubona kuwe. Abantu Mexico ingaba sociable kwaye vula, kodwa nantsi into.

kakhulu ukuba izithembiso ezenziwa ngokuzenzekelayo.

Xa mna lezinto ezinako ukwenzeka, lubandakanya Isitshayina, sasivuya walumkisa hayi nika i ambulance ithembisa ukuba Isitshayina. Yokuba ngabo weva: Ebalulekileyo ubuchule, apho ufumana uqeqesho kwi-Mexico yi-science ukuqonda implication ka-athethe amazwi. Idla intsingiselo ifihlakele ngeendlela ezininzi ornate designs. Okokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu glplanet ukuba akukho bani okubonakalayo ukususela shoulder, kodwa kamva oko kungabangela iingxaki. I-Mexican mentality eliminates i-directness ngokwawo, kunye nkqu eyomileyo ukwaliwa kwesicelo kwi-impendulo yakho isicelo uza kubuyela kwi umhlathi we ishicilelwe okubhaliweyo. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi inyaniso kulo mcimbi email, ukongeza amaxesha amaninzi enkosi kwangaphambili, ekupheleni umbhalo literally enjalo phrases njengoko efanayo attitude ngu emvelo everyday in life. Iinyanga ezintathu, ndiya kubabiza ezahlukeneyo abantu kwaye ucele umntu owenza ngaphambili kwakukho yabelwe wam inombolo yefowuni. Ngoko ke, kutshanje mna waxelelwa ukuba ayanelanga ukuba uthi: unako mna ndimbuza a ukuthandwa, nkosi. Bekuya kuba mnandi ukuba ubuya yima ukuzama biza lo inani njengokuba kubhaliwe yenza kum anxiety.

Ukuba ucela a Mexican, lula ukwenza abahlobo bakhe ilizwe, akazange hesitate ukuphendula kwi-affirmative.

Kodwa emva kokuba abanye ixesha kuya cacisa, loluphi uhlobo abahlobo ingaba uthetha malunga. Imiceli-vala kwaye reliable friendship likhule thatha. Kuqala, uqinisekile ukuba ukhangela kwi, kwaye emva xa ufuna baba (umhlobo, ii-pal) ukuba kuthetha ukuba zifikelele kuqala inqanaba. Ngoko uyakwazi ukukhula ukuba sele characterizes kuwe njengoko umhlobo. Kwi-indoda friendship ngu ephezulu umphakamo, oko kukuthi, umntakwabo. Ezi zihlobo unako ukusoloko counted kwi fingers, kodwa kuba nabo ukuya Mexico ngenene kukunceda kakhulu. Real abahlobo ingaba apha Ndathola yi-ngokwabo.

Kwaye wena, characteristically, kanjalo okulungileyo

Wokuqala isifundo kwi-journalism, ndandidibana a classmate, thina exchanged ifowuni amanani kwaye yena invited kum iqela kwi ummandla wedolophu of Mexico isixeko. Apho, ngokulandelelanayo, waguqukela phandle ukuba abe yakhe closest abahlobo. Kwaye ngoko ke rushed. Kwelinye ityala ubizwa ummelwane wam. Yena drove kum kwi-Institute a ezimbalwa umphinda-phinde ngo ngeveki ngalo isicelo we-mistress wam rented apartment.

Thina ihlole elula incoko kwaye ifumanise ukuba nzulu ngexesha elinye faculty.

Ngoko ke, emva iinyanga ezimbalwa waba ndizixelela ukuba nam malunga politics ka-Colombia kwaye kwamnceda ukulungiselela exams.

Mna kanye ezilahlekileyo izitshixo endlwini, apho ngexesha ubuze, kwaye bambiza kunye isicelo okokuba ngokuhlwa naye. Oko intliziyo phandle ukuba umhlobo wam makahlale i-Institute emva kwexesha, kodwa walumkisa malunga wam ingxaki unina. Kangangokuba, thina wachitha elikhulu ngokuhlwa ubukele a soap i-opera kwaye amehlo a steak. Kwaba scary ukuba umnxeba i-intercom uthi: endleleni, kwezinye iimeko, xa ufika ndwendwela, kwenu, ngalo ndlela, wanikela a glass amanzi. Musa ukulindela ukuba abahlobo unako ukufumana kwakho into ekhoyo kwi-ifriji, cook kwaye kusibeka kuwe qho plate. Kwaye inkulu amaqela ingaba ezibanjwa rhoqo kwi-isimbo, apho literally ubhekisa kwi-isimbo ushishino, kodwa eneneni kudla ntoni yena wazisa. Umnini unako anike invited eziliqela enkulu iipakethi ka-crisps, kwaye kwento yonke kuya kufuneka ukuba zikhathalele ngokwabo. Mexicans uthando ukugcina. Oku umgangatho ngu manifested kwi-iindlela ezahlukileyo, ingakumbi budlelwane nabanye. Ukuba Mexican earns kulungile, lowo lilungile ekulweni kuba wonke omnye penny (oko kukuthi kuba wonke ezintathu rubles) kwi-imifuno kuma, ukuthenga i-cheap namahlwempu umgangatho izinto zonke nyaka, kodwa kwi-iiholide ndiya ngokuqinisekileyo, yiya amahlanu inkwenkwezi hotel. Le ingakumbi annoyed wam roommate ukusuka e-Australia, abo phambi iholide kuba instructed i boyfriend ukukhetha hotel. Ekuqalekeni kubudlelwane waze wamxelela ukuba ukubhatala kuba akuyomfuneko, ngenxa yokuba yena uziva ngathi usasebenzisa iselwa geqe kwaye ngamnye ucwangciso uhambo ukuguqula kwi lwamagama ka-scandals. Efanayo savings kubonisiwe bonke abahlobo ukuzama umnxeba kwi indlu umnxeba, refuel kuba anamashumi rubles (kukunceda kakhulu ezintathu unit-format ka-gasoline), hayi kuba ulingeka yokuchitha ezininzi ipetroli amafutha. Omnye unusual mzuzu ka-Mexican inkcubeko: ukuba usebenzisa invited umhla wokuzalwa, kuza kufuneka ahlawule kuba oko kuya umyalelo. Kodwa kuba encinane ukuhlanganiswa, lo umthetho akusebenzi. Umzekelo, xa ndiya kofu kunye umntu ukusuka bahlobo bam, mna ke wamanzi acociweyo kunye kumnandi. Kodwa ngumsebenzi delicate zimvo lomgaqo-Mexicans kwaye banyanzeleka i-girls ngaphandle Jikelele iphumelele amazwe ukuba uhlale apha kuba osisigxina yokuhlala. Ezona inxalenye abantu abaqhelekileyo girls ngenyanga ka-abahlala apha, koonyana ukusuka abo bafana baselula kwi-Skype. Abaninzi kubo olahliweyo elide-emi budlelwane nabanye ngenxa ngesiquphe kufumaneke i-Mexicans. Usenokuba ucele ukuba kutheni. Ngoko ke kakhulu care kwaye ingqalelo njengoko girls nika kwi-Latin Emelika, baya musa get phantse naphi na ongomnye. Yabo escort endlwini, rhoqo kwi-gcina isandla sam, nkqu a stranger, ndiya kusoloko vula doors kuba kuni. Kwi street uza kubona izinto ezininzi couples abo bahamba ingalo kwi-ingalo, kwaye kissing. Emexico? adheres ukuya conservative upbringing ngokomthetho indima abantu kwi-budlelwane nabanye.

Oku kuthetha ukuba ixesha elininzi lowo wenza izigqibo kwaye iqalisa eli phulo.

Oololiwe abanye ixesha kwi-Mexico, kwaye kwangoko watyelela Yurophu, mna uqaphele i-Mexican abantu, kuthelekiswa European, nomdla tendency ukuba Patriarchy. Lam lokuqala utyelelo ndandisele faced kunye kwelinye icala le zonke izigaba ubomi. Mna ke emamele kwi radio sovavanyo apho kwakukho concerted loluntu izibhengezo, ubizo kwi abafazi hayi tolerate udushe babantu, kwaye umeme hotline okanye uqhagamshelane amapolisa. I kubekho inkqubela ke, umyeni, ngubani ncamathiselamessage status phezu ukuze endlwini yam umququzeleli usapho, wambetha yakhe kwaye baba akuvumelekanga ukuba umsebenzi. Ngaphezu koko, njengoko ndiya wachaza, waba likhokelwa yokuba nguye indoda, kwaye umsebenzi usapho xa unako. Kwaye ukuba ufuna umsebenzi akazange ufuna, kwaye imali endlwini hayi, oko akuthethi ukuba umfazi ovumelekileyo ukuba yiya waphuma endlwini. Kwi-Spanish ke ngokuba, oko kukuthi ngesondo-calulo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu kwi-Mexico ngokuba macho, eli ilizwi sele elahlukileyo connotation kwe-amaxesha amaninzi evakalayo. Machismo nje i-imigca ethe icala yokuba kwi-Mexico-siseko ngokwesini: olomeleleyo ngokwesini ivumela ngokwayo ukuba nantoni na. Omnye thabatha icala ukuba ubudlelwane ukuba banako yokugqibela kakhulu ixesha elide, kodwa zange ukuba end a umtshato. Ukuqinisekisa yakho oyikhethileyo, Mexicans sele kunye kuba iminyaka elishumi kwaye nokuphila kunye kaninzi emva wedding. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba emva enjalo thorough le ngxelo a enokwenzeka mlingane budlelwane ayisayi end kwi-wokuqhawula umtshato. Tshata Mexicans malunga amathathu eminyaka kamva. Mna kuba abahlobo phezu othe ngxi not married kwaye ingakumbi musa yokucinga ngayo. Abantwana, kakhulu, emva amathathu eminyaka, rhoqo kukufutshane ukuba K. baya a ubomi isicwangciso zichaza yokuba nika ezininzi ixesha career kwaye igcina ukuthenga emakhayeni abo. Ukongeza, abantwana ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala kumele yiya kindergarten, kwaye kwiziganeko eziliqela kuba kuye ukuhlawula kakhulu imali. Kukho free iigadi kuba omnye oomama, kodwa ngabo ukuzama ukuphepha nabazali babo. Uninzi Mexican izikolo kanjalo ihlawulwe, kukho amaziko karhulumente, kodwa banayo i-unenviable reputation, ngoko ke kuba oluphakathi udidi oluphakathi usapho malunga nabo nkqu. Inkqubo yezemfundo kwi-Mexico nangona sikwimeko yoqoqosho enzima ngokwaneleyo emva kindergarten kuba i-exam ukuya kuqala uhlobo. Iindidi ezikolweni kwaye kindergartens begin kwanezinye ekuseni, namhla, uyaqhuba ukuze ufake isicelo. Ke ngoko, inkangeleko usapho apha ubeka a-hluke kakhulu, kakhulu elikhulu izibophelelo. Wam stories malunga ukuba kwi-Russian iindlela zomzobo esikolweni, abazali babe bhala utitshala a qaphela ngoko ke umntwana wakho weza wesithathu isifundo, injongo enye admiration kwi-Mexico ukuba tsibela esikolweni hayi akukho sizathu. Kwesinye isandla, oku habit ka-slowness ekwenzeni ebalulekileyo ebomini izigqibo yenza surprise. Kwelinye, ngalinye inyathelo lesi-kungcono wayecinga ngaphandle. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana osetyenziselwa inyathelo lophuhliso wobomi apha, settle kwi-Mexico kuya kuba lula. I-Mexican indlela ubomi kunye ilanlekile ka-amaqela kwaye nako ukuze bonwabele ubomi, nokuba kwakunjalo, ukuba nangaliphi na ubudala, end ajongise phandle ukuba abe kakhulu nabafana, friendship kunye abantu beli lizwe ingaba ixesha elide kwaye ngamandla.